*19th Birthday*

~my birthday cake~

Thanks.................... suerin, jojo, shuhui, linda, weiting, yenyen, shirley =)

Yippie~

Finally finish my final exam...yeah.... end of sem... going sis home tonight... then going back Kuching on Sunday....XD... so so so so happy....

Last night we celebrate Shu Hui birthday. eat steamboat at Hoi Tong... Eat till spare tyre come out... lolx... we got 2 suprise for her... we are celebrating as if today don't have exam anymore.... MORF 101 doesn't exist (DNE).. haha =)

Packing all my stuff now... pack half way too sleepy cause last night sleep at 2am then wake up at 7am this morning... end up hugging my bedsheet sleep on my bed.... wahaha =)

6 of us

All of us

Final & Holiday

Next week I will be having my final exam. My last semester for Foundation year. 4 more days left for me to study Chemistry, Calculus & Physics. I don't think I can finish revising but I will try.
Daddy and mummy are coming this Friday. I'm so happy but weekend I need to study as well going out with them. maybe i'll choose staying at home but I don't think I'll.

I'll be going back to Kuching on 14 June, so happy. I miss kolomee and laksa so much. Su Ching is going back on 26 June. So nice. Finally 5 of us get to meet up and crapping again. Cant wait. Holidays.....


This semester isn't a peaceful semester bcoz many things happened yet many assignments and tests......
Life is complicated and unpredictable when we grow older.....

MTAF Camp

Finally finish camping & the sukaneka....
Feel so so sleepy and tired yesterday and today yet many clothes to wash... wash till bo lat... lolx

yeah... finally the course end already... and I am very happy about tat coz i don't need to wear the tomato shirt again... XD

now only left for the test... no more marching, no more class about fitness, health, moral, leadership and bla bla bla... wuhuhu =)

me & shu hui

me & shu hui & weiting

me & shu hui

Having dinner at campsite*aileen,suerin,me,calvin,kat,yongkang*

Food......

Just had my late dinner at Old Town...
Firstly, I plan to eat French toast only, but I ended up eating half of the French toast and Curry Mee + milk tea...... hehe =)
Feeling so so so so full now....


During moral class, my mind is thinking bout Bak Kut Teh, Laksa, Kolomee & Kueh Chap....
So so delicious.... Cant wait until 14 June.... Feel like eating them....

thx to yc talking bout bak kut teh & kueh chap when I am having class.... lolx * mention about which place taste better somemore... XD
saliva dripping....


But now I feel very very full..... too FULL... haha =) but I still have kueh chap in my mind... XD...

100 Truths

001. Real Name: Goh Jou Ee
002. Nickname(s): 妹妹, Ruby, bao bei, 小妹
003. Age: 18
004. Horoscope: Cancer
005. Gender: Female
006. Elementary: Tadika Kuching.
007. Primary School: SJK Chung Hua no.4
008. Secondary School: SMK Kuching High
009. College: Universiti Tenaga Nasional, UNITEN
010. Hair Colour: Coklat
011. Hair Length: Short
012. Loud or Quiet: Depends... lolx
013. Sweats or Jeans : Both
014. Phone or Camera: None
015. Health Freak: Of coz not
016. Drink or Smoke: Now? neither
017. Do you have a crush on someone: No
018. Eat or Drink: Both
019. Piercings: my ears
020. Tattoos: maybe....
021. Social or Anti-Social: Social
022. Righty or lefty: Righty.
023. First piercing: Form 5
024. First relationship: Not sure
025. First Best Friend: Jian Hui
026. First Award: Mediterious Service Medal (National Level)
027. First Kiss: No
028. First Pet: Fish?
029. First Big Vacation: Singapore
030. First Love at first sight: Don think so
031. First Big Birthday: when I was a kid
032. First Surgery : Touchwood~
033. First sport you joined: None
034. Orange or Apple juice: Watermelon juice
035. Rock or Rap: Both
036. Country or Screamo: Country
037. NSYNC or Backstreet boys: None
038. Britney spears or Christina Aguilera: None
039. Night or Day: Night. coz day hyper hot now...
040. Sun or Moon: Moon.
041. TV or Internet: Both
042. Playstation or xbox: I prefer computer...
043. Kiss or hug: BOTH!
044. Iguana or turtle: Turtle
045. Spider or bee: Never
046. Fall or spring: Spring
047. Limewire or iTunes:XX
048. Soccer or baseball: None
049. Eating: Yes yes
050. Drinking: H2O
051. Excitement level: Now? Neutral....
052. I'm about to: Having dinner
053. Listening to: ......
054. Plan for today: Study
055. Waiting for: ??
056. Energy Level: 50%..
057. Thinking of someone: No
058. Want kids : Yes
059. Want to get married?: Of coz
060. When?: 27 or 28 ??
061. How many kids do you want: 3 gua....
062. Any name on the mind: No
065. Mellow future or wild: thinking*
066. Something you would never try: Drug!!!
067. When do you want to die: Not now
067. Which is the better in the boy/girl you like(in the future): do I have a choice??
068. Lips or Eyes: erm... eyes
069. Romantic or Funny?: Both both..
070. Shorter or Taller?: Taller, for sure
071. Protective or Caring?: Both
072. Romantic or Spontaneous?: Both.
073. Nice Stomach or Nice Arms?: Nice stomach
074. Sensitive or Loud?: Little of each
075. Hook-up or Relationship?: None
076. Trouble Maker or Hesitant?: Haha =)
077. Muscular or normal: Muscular but not too over MUSCULAR...
078. Kissed a stranger: No
079. Broken a bone: Never
080. Lost glasses or contacts: Don't want
081. Ran away from home: Ever thought of it ONLY
082. Held a gun/knife for self defence: No
083. Killed somebody: I don't want to be in jail...
084. Broken some one's heart: Maybe
085. Had your heart broken: Used to
086. Been arrested: Never
087. Cried when someone died: Yup
088. Liked a friend more than a friend: Sure
089. Do you believe in Yourself: Not most of the time la....
090. Miracles: I believe
091. Love at first sight: Never experience before
092. Heaven: Higher than sky?
093. Santa Claus: In cartoon?
094. Tooth Fairy: XD
095. Kiss in the first date: No
096. Angels: Hope they exist
097. Is there 1 person you want to be with right now? : Daddy & Mummy
098. Are you seriously happy with where you're in life now?: Think so...
099. Do you believe in God? : Sure!
100. Post as 100 truths and tag 10 people.

1. Su Ching
2. Phoebe
3. Yik Chen
4. Chung Wui
5. Dixon
   
6. Hui Lin
7. Li Sia
8. Calvin
   
9. Weiting
10. Linda
    

Happy World Red Cross Day !!!

8 May 2009


*i miss the days working together wif all of u*

Family Photo

Puan Lim Thank You Dinner 2007

Beach at Miri

Kuching International Airport (KIA)

43rd Anniversary 2007

*Friends~

......

There are too many things in my To Do List :

1. Moral Assignment
2. Chemistry Assignment
3. Calculus Test
4. Chemistry Test
5. MTAF Camping
6. Physics Test

ish.......






*cough cough, stay away from me......*

Nice Meaning

先處理心情、再處理事情

有時我們在溝通時 會不自覺地用一些『否定式』、『命令式』、或『上對下』的說話方式 例如：『你錯了，你錯了，話不能這麼說』 或是『唉呀，跟你說過多少次了，你這樣做不行啦 你怎麼那麼笨，跟你講你都不聽……』 一般來說，人都不喜歡『被批評、被否定』 但是，有時我們在言談間 卻不知不覺地流露出『自我中心主義』和『優越感』 覺得自己都是對的，別人都是錯的 可是，有句話說：『強勢的建議，是一種攻擊』 有時，即使我們說話的出發點是良善的、是好意的 但如果講話的口氣太強勢、太不注意到對方的感受 則對方聽起來，就會像是一種攻擊一樣，很不舒服 所以，有時候我們的心中會有一種慨嘆… 你知道嗎？其實，我滿贊同你的想法，但我很不喜歡你『講話的口氣』 其實，我滿同意你的見解，但我很不喜歡你『講話的態度』 有時，我們會說： 『我這個人很理性啊，你看，我的門都是開的，大家隨時都可以進來和我溝通啊』 可是，如果『我們的門是開的，心卻是關的』，又有什麼用呢？ 因此，在溝通時，必須注意到對方的感受 畢竟每個人都有『自我尊嚴感的需求』 每個人都希望被肯定、被讚美、被認同、被附和 而不喜歡被否定、被輕視 所以，即使雙方意見不同 但必須做到『異中求同、圓融溝通』，『有話照說，但口氣要委婉許多』 中國人造字很有意思，想想『我』這個字，是哪兩個字的組合呢？ 是『手』和『戈』 「我」字，竟然就是「每個人手上都拿著刀劍、武器」 所以每個人都常做「自我防衛」，來保護自己 但是，在溝通時，人除了防衛自己之外，也要站在別人的立場來想 善用「同理心」，也學習控制自己的『舌頭』 『在適當的時候，說出一句漂亮的話；也在必要的時候，及時打住一句不該說的話』 因此，我們必須學習 『不要急著說、不要搶著說，而是要想著說』 絕對不要『逞口舌之快』而後悔 因為說話是沒有『橡皮擦』、沒有『立可白』的，不能再把話擦掉呀 另外，職場溝通中 我們必須學習『情緒忍受力』和『挫折容忍力』 因為，『脾氣來了，福氣就沒有了』 在我們碰到棘手的問題時，必須先靜下來、勿衝動行事 也學習『先處理心情、再處理事情』，免得事情愈弄愈糟糕 有句話說： 『生命的長度是上帝所給予的，但生命的寬度卻掌握在我們自己的手中』 的確，我們雖然不能控制生命的『長度』 但我們可以控制生命的『寬度』 我們都可以在工作中，學習做更好的溝通 使人際關係更圓融，也使生命過得更漂亮、更有意義，不是嗎？ =) *gt tis frm e-mail...*

Test ... Test ... Test....

Next week Calculus test.....

Next next week Chemistry test...

Next next next week Physics test...

Endless test....

My jurulatih say next week got MTAF camping wor... wt*

Phiew...

Ok... today is monday... A bright and sunny day.... lolx..

And I feel glad and great.... because I don't need to make any choice... I want to let it be because I really don't know what to do already.... I need to consider all the consequences no matter which option I made... Therefore, 兵来将当，水来土淹吧 !!!!

船到桥头自然直......

Why ?????

Why things get more and more complicated when we grow up ????

Can anyone tell me why....??????

I'm standing in the middle of the junction and I DON"T WANT to choose either to turn left or right......

MoNd@y #$%^&*

Tomorrow is MONDAY!!!!!!!

can I skip tomorrow??? I don't feel like facing what is going to happen tomorrow...

~haih... haiz... haiw.......~

The fact is the balloon already burst... no matter how many air you pump in... the balloon still remained.... shapeless.... unless there is thousands and millions of PLASTERsssssss.... lolx..   a new balloon will be a smarter choice rather than wasting money on plasterssss.....XD

but life still goes on... and I don't have any option......

MUET...

having MUET test tis morning... I have no idea wat the test actually about bcoz we only got e mail to ask us to get our MUET slip juz one week before today... lolx... English lecturer din even say a word about MUET test...  

I almost fall asleep during the reading paper... lolx...

When writing essay, my brain was empty... no point, no bombastic word... trying hard to form sentences... XD... long time din write essay liao la... my brain are rusting... haha =)

We finish the test at about 1pm den we ( me, jojo, shu hui, linda & shirley ) went to Sunway Pyramid... haha =) having lunch at gasoline...

my mee soup~

~hot jasmine honey tea

Den we shop shop shop till 6 smth onli we left... haha =) I feel so sleepy the whole afternoon bcoz  I drink my cough sirup after lunch... den x feel like talking coz batt low d.... lolx...

Dinner at about 10 smth... lolx... eat Roti 2004 + teh-c-suam... lolx... ~ home~

p.s. thank you for answering all the question tat I wish to ask long time ago... I appreciate tat though u are frank... hehe =) thanks for those sweet memories u gave me...

Excited... yet Exhausted Day...

Yesterday night we ( jojo, me, shu hui, linda weiting, shirley ) had western food as our dinner... yummy... chicken chop in mushroom sauce + honey lemon drink... eat till very full....

our drinks~

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War start after we went home after diner.... Fighting hardly here and there....

Everyone's mode and mood r at their peak....

my hands are tired explaining those things in words bcoz  *words* written are really harsh n which is totally nt true n it hurts our feelings *very very much* n i end up speechless... den we target bout tai ma "gold" series stuff... XD... you all noe wat i m saying la...

p.s. tai ma is good in changing topic.. lolx...  n ur apology is accepted

Chatting till 3am in the morning.... XD.. 2nd time in the week... nv chat till so late or shoud I say early? lolx.... yet having so many things to say.... endless n endless conversation .... I end up sleeping on my chair..... den reli cant stand.. offline....

Haha....

Din update my blog for ages....hahaha...coz veli lazy.... coz I create tis blog bcoz someone told me tat "rou yi, go create a blog la.. nowadays everyone blog..." den I say ok den... but tat someone din teach me how to customize though tat someone owes say wan2 teach me.... you-know-who-u-r la..... XD

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Thief n ALSO MONKEY?????

There's report on somewhere near Cheras, got someone house got rob when those thieves manage to get into the owner house before the auto gate manage to close....

ok... therefore, we need to beware of thieves... n onli get down after the auto gate close....ok la is normal to be aware of thief.....

but now... Aiyoyo... need to watch out for MONKEY.. should I burst out laughing....

Yesterday n today my bro n bro-in-law, Steven, saw a huge monkey somewhere around our house there.... XD... They say the monkey look very very fierce....

The opposite house aunty say it OWES chase ppl.... make me so scare... I keep looking around before I step out to the balcony....

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last thurs I went see doctor after my bro n me had our dinner.. coz i really cant stand keep coughing oledi...

I told the doc tat I owes feel veli cold for the last few days but now ok oledi... den he put a thermometer under my tongue... after few mins... he said :" Fever... 38 degree Celcius" .. Tat day I d feel ok coz no feel cold anymore but still fever... den last few days masi fever lo.... XD... my sister have no comment bout me d coz fever kaki oso beh zai den onli thurs go see doc... lolx....

p.s. i update blog d ar... x say i din update again ar... haha =)

Heavy Eyes

My eyes are very heavy now...
But i don wan2 sleep...
I think today is the first time I woke up so early since lasr yr... XD

0530am in the morning n.... I slept at 0100am last 9... haha =)
Woke up so early coz I wan2 assist my daddy during his talk which start at 7 smth...

Today is Tues... 5 more days to go I will start my Sem 3....
4 more days to go I will be in KL....
Can I extend my holiday??? The ans is NO...
Sometimes really feel tired and exhausted.......

Sweet Memories.....

I was tidying some of my stuff 2 days ago then I found some notebook tat I used to jot down those " sweet memories"....
Congrats!!! coz I finally wan2 throw them away...
But someone told me tat they shud be kept coz WE WUD BE NOSTALGIC...
Haha =) But I say if my daddy saw those den I wud b speechless...
Anyway, they d bcome pieces inside my rubbish bin...

To me, Let the bygones be bygones...
Reading those, I had a funny thinking which is kinda childish...
If things work out tat time, today it wont be like tis...
Haha =) tis thought juz slip thru my mind...
But tat is the past...
 

Nitez....